Pickup Artist Fashion Pt. 2

(continued from part 1)

There was about a couple of times that I did the
peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard
that other guys were doing it.

I felt ridiculous when I went out and was totally
incongruent with my personality.

As we all know women love’s fashion and they like a
well-dressed man.

I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred when I was
in my workout clothes, or I was wearing something really
basic – like jeans and a tanktop.

At the same time, women definitely did not respond well to
those muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or
super-tight shirts at the club.
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Pickup Artist Fashion Pt. 1

What The Pickup Artist on VH1 Wont Tell You About Fashion 1

I am NOT the most fashionable guy in the world.

Usually it is my girlfriend who pick the clothes for me – not for my benefit…

… so that if we go out in public together she will not feel embarrassed!

If I were the one to pick my clothes, I’d rather pick the sweats and t-shirt, coupled with my old worn sneakers. I mean, I think fashion is silly.

I definitely appreciate the artistic aspect of fashion style and design. It is like a work of art when I look at a very well dressed woman, I dig that.

I kinda lose respect when a guy is “too stylish.”

Don’t misinterpret me, a man should present himself like he means to be taken seriously. A nice suit, good quality, well-fitting clothes are a basic of being a masculine.

But some guys take this so much.

Case in point, the obsession with “peacocking” in the pickup Community for the past several years.

It makes me cringe when I hear this term.

YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.

Let me explain what is “peacocking,” in case you’re not familiar.

There was an emergence of routine-based “game” a while ago that rely heavily on superficial techniques, status games, and over-analysis of social interactions.

This always gone in the opposite direction and I never saw the value of it.

Reason for this is that I saw how pretending to be someone other than yourself, and saying jokes and routines that other guys came up with JUST FELT WRONG.

On top of that, the FIRST FOCUS of all that strategy and game-playing was to eventually get approval from women, while making them feel insecure so they’d think you were cooler than them.

Think about the layers in the dating approach. Not only are you faking your personality because you

a) look for approval (as if girls were an authority on what makes man a man)

b) hide the truth that you’re looking for approval

c) play games with women so that they will seek your approval when they feel insecure

YUCK

“Peacock,” is one of the main techniques of this approach as to dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so that women would “notice” you and want to talk to you.

Wearing a nice watch, or a necklace isn’t a bad thing because some have personal meaning.

But I never do that just to make women like me.

I’m sure many guys have seen the advocates of this approach on TV shows,straining to make sense out of this hare-brained “technique.”

I felt sad to the students of other pickup schools that I’ve encountered because these poor guys were not only nervous, clumsy, misdirected…they looked RETARDED.

So I’d like to set a record when it comes to fashion and meeting girls.

There are only few things that you need to focus when it comes to your appearance.

After knowing this stuff, you should put it out of your mind and TAKE ACTION before women can notice you.

Before moving on, I have something to expose.

(To be Continued in Part 2)