(continued from part 1)
There was about a couple of times that I did the
peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard
that other guys were doing it.
I felt ridiculous when I went out and was totally
incongruent with my personality.
As we all know women love’s fashion and they like a
well-dressed man.
I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred when I was
in my workout clothes, or I was wearing something really
basic – like jeans and a tanktop.
At the same time, women definitely did not respond well to
those muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or
super-tight shirts at the club.
This make me think… that maybe this is not on how much
the clothes cost or how flashy they are…
I guess there is something else going on.
There are two things going on. This two things must be
manage or balance.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a
woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make
her like you, you are toast.
So if you look like you got dressed with the intention of
getting women’s attention, they’ll see you coming a mile a
way and put up their defenses.
You shouldn’t have to look like a pick up artist.
It’s better to dress reasonably, and not put too much
thought into it.
However, you want to present yourself in the best way you
can and not to look sloppy.
This comes back to self-expression.
You already have a sense what kind of man you are, what
your “scene” is, what you think is cool.
Don’t change that.
Instead, cultivate it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that appeal to your skin tone and hair color.
This isn’t rocket science. Go to an upscale men’s clothing
store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.
Next thing, make sure your clothes are clean, wrinkle free
and reasonably updated. A woman shouldn’t have to worry
about bringing you around her friends.
Most of all, be sure that your clothes fits well, they
BRING OUT YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your
shoulders.
Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself – nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent
haircut. Shave, or don’t, but figure out what looks best and
take it all the way.
One other piece…
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look
of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”
I don’t want to talk too much because that’s a whole other
topic because that’s a whole other topic. Just use your
intuition with this one.
